I Too Had A Love Story!

I never thought I will write a review of a book or lets say any book. I too had a love story is a special book for me. It starts with a get together event of four friends who are settled in their own life's. All of them discuss about their next stage of life, Marriage. After discussing every possible way to find a girl for themselves, They come up with an option of creating their profiles in  a matrimonial site. Ravin(hero) after reaching his work place creates his profile and starts his search. After many attempts he eventually ends up with a message on his mobile from a girl, Kushi(heroine). He calls back to the number and both start talking.

They fall in love, Without looking at each other. Kushi is a very bubbly girl with all sorts of imaginations about future where as Ravin is a little practical man. Kushi's family was aware of Ravin from the moment they spoke to each other, On the counter part Ravin never told anyone about Kushi. After a series of little fights Ravin pulls up all his courage and finally reveals about his long distance relationship with a girl who messaged him seeing his profile in a matrimonial site. Everything goes absolutely fine until Ravin receives an order to work in the US for a project. Kushi and Ravin finally meet and see each other before Ravin leaves for the us. Long distance relationship gets even longer for a month and love becomes stronger. A date for engagement will be fixed and just a day before the event Kushi meets with an accident. With in a couple of days she leaves Ravin and rest of the world to rest in peace. 

Ravinder singh, the author writes down his original story where an arranged marriage turns into love and ends up badly. Romance, Love, Happiness and Sentiments are exactly in place. A must read book for people in love. After reading this book i realized that life is not predictable, and u cant prepare yourself for every situation. A person whom u love needs to be alive even though he is with u or he is with some one else. One should fight for love if he can because if you encounter with a situation like this you are totally helpless and you cannot fight with your Fate. 

Love can happen in a second and last for a life. Love can happen when he holds your hand as though he will never leave it again. Love can happen when you look into his eyes for a moment and see his heart through it. This book is for everyone who had a love story.  

PAIN

Pain is the strongest feel amongst the rest. Pain is the only feel like love which will drive you crazy. I feel love and pain are like Siamese twins, Who cannot be separated by any kind of surgery. Love gives Expectation, Attachment, Dreams and Hope, When all this fade out pain arrives. Love eventually ends, But pain is one thing which will remain forever reminding you about your lost happiness. Pain is an awesome feeling. For me, Pain is the only thing with which I can gauge my love towards a person. More pain, Longer the pain, More love. Pain will reduce the desire to live in me. Pain actually kills me slowly but completely.

Pic by KARTEEK SIVAGOUNI

No dear, Pain is unavoidable because love is unavoidable. If you are a human you will love or get attached and you know you cant help it. Pain destroys you physically and mentally. Physically because you can neither eat or sleep by heart. Mentally because you can never be the same and you can never feel the same. Pain is the strangest feeling, Pain can subside when it is wrapped in love of friends and family but it will only end with love and care of that person who caused it.  Why don't pain understand that if that person loved or cared then pain would not be there in the first place? This is why I said pain remains forever.

Pain takes away one good thing in you every time it comes. It may kill your trust or hope or love or smile or happiness or dreams and sometimes everything. You will never be able to love anyone like that ever again. You will never be able to trust anyone like that ever again. Pain shows you the amount of tears your eyes can actually produce. Pain shows you how it feels when your worst dream comes true. Pain crushes you deep inside. The only way to live through pain is to accept it. Love pain so that even it will leave you some day.

P.S: Forgive me if this post reminded you about your pain. 

ChAnGe!!

Change is a proof that you are alive. Yes, for me it is. Change is a feel that makes you feel new. Change is a state where you know what u exactly want. It will introduce another you to yourself and others. It will make you realize what you missed and what you achieved. Life without change is like death, nothing new and nothing old. Change is not always positive, we have witnessed people who were initially perfect changing completely different, we have experienced pain but then that change is what exactly made us choose what person we loved and what person we have. Change helped us decide. It made us choose happiness, isn't it? Change is like a medicine, sour to taste but good for health.

pic credits KARTEEK SIVAGOUNI

Best part is when you know you are changing and you are happy with the change. Hope arises. Life seems more colourful. You wonder is that really you who is changing. Happiness is found right there, in you But i must admit you will miss the person you used to be, Yet again you will love the new you.



Change does not depend on you at all, it depends on the person who changed you, Depends on the situations responsible.Change is another helpless stage where you find yourself changing but you cannot stop or turn back.
Change is another thing I don't regret at all, but I regret the fact that I do not change very frequently. For me, Changing is once in a blue moon but when it comes I am open to it. Change is nothing but a seed growing into a plant, A bud blossoming into a flower and A Caterpillar transforming into a butterfly.
Love u change. Love people who changed me. 

Attachment!

Huh?? Now what about Attachment??
I know all of you are secretly hoping that I should blog positively about this, But the fact is, You all know attachments are at times very painful. No body wants to get attached to a person, It just happens. Attachment is like love (more or less). You never know with whom or how U get attached to a person. You don't even know whether you are attached or not until you attempt to leave the person, So much like love isn't it??  People say you came into this world alone and you will leave this world alone, But I was not alone, No one was alone, I had a family already waiting for me to arrive. I hope I wont leave alone, I hope I will have someone who find it difficult to let me go. When life starts with an attachment and ends with an attachment how can you live the rest of the life without attachments???

You meet thousands of people in your life but u get attached to very few. Attachment, unlike love, doesn't happen in a moment, it takes time to start. Attachment is like a habit, very hard to stop initially. When you get attached to a person, That person doesn't remain some one else anymore, he/she will become a part of your life, just like family. No human in this world will have an option whether he should or he shouldn't get attached to some one. Imagine If we had a choice in this, Many tears would have been safe inside the lids right??

I feel attachment is like a drug, Every part of your heart will try its best to keep it alive! The worst situation is when you get attached to a person for whom you don't mean anything at all. Attachments do give u happiness at times but most of the times I just felt pain because of it. Attachment is not in my hands, I am helpless in its hands. It hurts and heals, all I can do is just take it like a punching bag. Attachments lead to expectations (another pain if not met) Life is all about happiness and pain. Feel it. Live it.

Hope all your attachments stay alive forever...!!!